Popular television actress Surbhi Chandna recently shared a candid and emotional post on Instagram, offering a glimpse into the realities of her first year of marriage with Karan Sharma. The couple, who tied the knot in March 2024 after a long courtship, are approaching their first wedding anniversary. In her heartfelt post, Surbhi discussed the challenges, adjustments, and valuable lessons she’s learned during this transformative phase of her life.
Surbhi’s Vulnerable Moment and the Message Behind It
The post featured an unseen picture of Surbhi in tears, being comforted by her husband Karan. She clarified that the picture was taken two months after their wedding, during a particularly vulnerable moment. Surbhi emphasized that Karan was not the cause of her tears, but rather a source of support and comfort during a difficult time. She explained that he had captured the moment to remind her of how far they’ve come.
“Warning: Don’t come at my better half… he’s not trying to make me cry, instead doing the opposite,” Surbhi wrote in her caption. “Clicked by HIM at my most vulnerable just to cheer me up. It’s saved in my gallery so I know we have come a long way, and the way ahead of us will come with its sack of roses & thorns.”
Surbhi’s post highlighted the contrast between the often-perfect portrayal of life on social media and the actual ups and downs that everyone experiences. She acknowledged that celebrities rarely speak about their struggles, creating an illusion of a “cakewalk” life, which is far from the truth.
The Learnings and Adjustments of Married Life
As Surbhi and Karan approach their first wedding anniversary, she shared some of the key takeaways from her first year of marriage. She emphasized that building a life together as husband and wife is never easy, and it involves constant adjustment and compromise.
“It’s never easy when you are trying to build a life together as husband and wife,” Surbhi wrote. “You are only ever adjusting, compromising & so much more. Easy being girlfriend-boyfriend (you are writing your own manual).”
Surbhi candidly spoke about the emotional challenges she faced early in her marriage, including missing her parents and grappling with new responsibilities. She described feeling overwhelmed and unprepared for the various roles she had to juggle.
“I missed my parents so much right after I got married and would break down missing my dad the most,” Surbhi shared. “The responsibilities that came along—no one ever told you or prepared you for them. You are just about coping with one role, and then something else erupts, and the loop keeps looping.”
Balancing Personal and Professional Life
In addition to navigating the emotional landscape of marriage, Surbhi and Karan also embarked on a new venture together. They launched their own music label and production house, adding another layer to their personal and professional relationship.
Surbhi admitted that working together as professionals has its own set of challenges. She spoke about the importance of keeping egos aside and finding a middle ground, which has been a significant learning experience for both of them.
“We began working on our music label/production as producers, alongside my acting career, with no help or guidance in the business,” Surbhi explained. “Working together as professionals came with our share of fights. Keeping egos away and finding that middle ground has been a learning experience.”
Through all the ups and downs, Surbhi emphasized the importance of mutual support and understanding. She expressed gratitude for Karan’s unwavering support and their ability to uplift each other’s spirits during challenging times.
The Importance of Communication and Understanding
Surbhi’s post also touched upon the common notion that the first year of marriage is often the toughest. She acknowledged the truth in this statement, especially for couples who have been together for a long time before marriage.
“They say surviving the first year of marriage is the toughest rightfully so,” Surbhi wrote. “It’s definitely important to be on the same page with your partner… especially when you have dated for goddamn 14 years. God knows how our parents made it look easy!”
Despite the challenges, Surbhi expressed that she and Karan are committed to making their marriage work. They are learning to navigate the complexities of married life together, finding the right balance between their individual needs and their shared goals.
Surbhi’s post resonated with many of her followers, who appreciated her honesty and vulnerability. Her willingness to share her experiences has opened up a conversation about the realities of marriage, reminding everyone that it’s a journey filled with both joys and challenges.
As Surbhi and Karan approach their first wedding anniversary, they continue to inspire their fans with their love, commitment, and willingness to embrace the rollercoaster of married life.
